Why do we resist change so much?? Why is it that we tend to shy away from changing something in our life that makes us feel sad and miserable? Is it because we do not dare trust in our own observations and daily feelings of dullness in our life? Is it because we do not trust our own gut feeling that that particular situation or relationship simply isn't good for us? Or maybe we feel that we have to just accept certain things - that we have no influence  over what goes on in our life?Feeling helpless and simply not knowing how to change things is very debilitating and can…